Understanding Social Security Survivor Benefits
Social Security is one of the most important sources of retirement income in America, yet survivor benefits remain one of the least understood parts of the system. Many people are surprised to learn that widows, widowers, divorced spouses, children, and even dependent parents may qualify for Social Security survivor benefits after the death of a loved one.
If you are nearing retirement, already retired, divorced, widowed, or helping aging parents navigate retirement decisions, understanding survivor benefits could have a major impact on your long-term financial security.
In this article, we’ll break down how Social Security survivor benefits work, who qualifies, when benefits can begin, and strategies that may help maximize retirement income.
What Are Social Security Survivor Benefits?
Social Security survivor benefits are monthly payments made to eligible family members after a worker passes away. These benefits are based on the deceased person’s earnings history and Social Security record.
Unlike life insurance, Social Security does not provide a large lump-sum death payment. In fact, the one-time death benefit is currently only $255 for eligible spouses or children.
The real value comes from the ongoing monthly survivor income that may continue for years or even decades.
Who Can Qualify for Survivor Benefits?
Several categories of family members may qualify for survivor benefits:
- Widows and widowers
- Divorced spouses
- Dependent children
- Disabled adult children
- Dependent parents
Most retirement planning conversations focus on surviving spouses and divorced spouses because these situations are the most common and financially impactful.
Survivor Benefits for Widows and Widowers
If your spouse passes away, you may be eligible to receive survivor benefits as early as age 60.
This is important because many people assume Social Security benefits always begin at age 62. Survivor benefits have different rules.
You may qualify:
- At age 60 as a surviving spouse
- At age 50 if disabled
- At any age if caring for the deceased worker’s child who is under age 16
However, timing matters. Claiming survivor benefits early results in a reduced monthly payment.
For example, taking survivor benefits at age 60 instead of full retirement age can reduce the benefit significantly. Waiting until full retirement age may allow you to receive 100% of the deceased spouse’s benefit.
Can an Ex-Spouse Receive Survivor Benefits?
Yes. This is one of the most overlooked Social Security rules.
If you were married for at least 10 years, you may qualify for survivor benefits based on an ex-spouse’s record.
To qualify:
- The marriage must have lasted at least 10 years
- You must currently be unmarried before age 60
- Your ex-spouse must qualify for Social Security benefits
There is also an important exception involving remarriage.
If you remarry after age 60, you may still be eligible for survivor benefits from your former spouse.
This creates planning opportunities many people never realize exist.
How Survivor Benefits Differ From Spousal Benefits
Many people confuse spousal benefits and survivor benefits, but they are not the same.
A regular spousal benefit while both spouses are alive is generally limited to up to 50% of the worker’s benefit.
A survivor benefit can potentially equal 100% of the deceased spouse’s benefit if claimed at the appropriate age.
That difference can dramatically affect retirement income for surviving spouses.
What Happens If the Deceased Spouse Claimed Early?
This is another critical issue.
If the deceased spouse claimed Social Security early, the reduced benefit often carries over to the survivor.
For example:
- A worker claims Social Security at age 62
- The worker receives permanently reduced benefits
- The surviving spouse later inherits that reduced amount
This is one reason couples should carefully evaluate claiming strategies before filing for Social Security.
Early claiming may permanently reduce income for both spouses over time.
Can You Switch Between Benefits?
One of the most valuable survivor benefit rules is the ability to switch between benefits in certain situations.
This flexibility can create significant planning opportunities.
Strategy Example #1
A widow takes survivor benefits at age 60 while allowing her own retirement benefit to continue growing.
Later, at full retirement age or age 70, she switches to her own larger benefit.
Strategy Example #2
A divorced spouse takes her own smaller retirement benefit early while delaying survivor benefits.
At full retirement age, she switches to the larger survivor benefit from her deceased ex-spouse.
These strategies may increase lifetime retirement income substantially.
However, every situation is different, and calculations matter.
Why Survivor Benefit Planning Matters
Losing a spouse is emotionally devastating, but it can also create major financial stress.
Many households experience a reduction in income after the death of one spouse. Pension income may decline, investment strategies may change, and Social Security benefits may shift.
Understanding survivor rules ahead of time helps retirees prepare for these possibilities.
For many Americans, Social Security represents the foundation of retirement income because:
- Benefits are inflation-adjusted
- Payments are guaranteed by the government
- Benefits may continue for life
- Taxes on Social Security are often lower than other retirement income sources
Maximizing these benefits can improve long-term retirement stability.
What About Survivor Benefits for Children?
Children may also qualify for survivor benefits under certain circumstances.
Generally, unmarried children may qualify if they are:
- Under age 18
- Still in high school up to age 19
- Disabled before age 22
These rules can provide important financial assistance for surviving families.
Can Parents Receive Survivor Benefits?
In some cases, dependent parents may qualify for survivor benefits from a deceased child.
Typically, the parent must have relied on the child for at least half of their financial support.
Although less common, this rule may help aging parents who depended financially on an adult child.
How to Apply for Survivor Benefits
Unlike some Social Security claims, survivor benefits often cannot be completed entirely online.
Applicants may need to provide documentation such as:
- Death certificates
- Marriage certificates
- Divorce records
- Birth certificates
- Social Security numbers
Applications are typically handled:
- By phone with Social Security
- In person at a Social Security office
Because filing decisions can permanently affect retirement income, many people benefit from reviewing strategies before applying.
Common Survivor Benefit Mistakes
Claiming Too Early
Starting benefits at the earliest possible age may permanently reduce lifetime income.
Not Understanding Switching Options
Some retirees don’t realize they may switch between survivor and personal retirement benefits later.
Assuming Divorce Eliminates Eligibility
Many divorced spouses incorrectly assume they cannot claim benefits based on an ex-spouse’s record.
Failing to Coordinate as a Couple
Married couples often focus only on maximizing current income without considering long-term survivor income.
Social Security Survivor Benefits and Retirement Planning
Social Security decisions should never happen in isolation.
Survivor benefits affect:
- Retirement income planning
- Tax planning
- Investment withdrawal strategies
- Healthcare planning
- Longevity planning
- Estate planning
The right claiming strategy for one household may be completely wrong for another.
Factors such as age differences, earnings history, health, marital status, pensions, and retirement savings all play a role.
Frequently Asked Questions About Survivor Benefits
Can I collect both my Social Security and survivor benefits?
No. In most cases, you receive whichever benefit is higher. However, you may be able to strategically switch between benefits over time.
At what age can I start survivor benefits?
Most surviving spouses can begin survivor benefits at age 60, or age 50 if disabled.
Can I receive survivor benefits from an ex-spouse?
Yes, if the marriage lasted at least 10 years and you meet eligibility requirements.
Does remarriage affect survivor benefits?
Remarrying before age 60 may impact eligibility. Remarrying after age 60 generally preserves eligibility for survivor benefits from a former spouse.
Do survivor benefits increase if I wait?
Yes. Waiting until full retirement age may increase the percentage of the survivor benefit you receive.
What happens if my spouse claimed Social Security early?
The reduced benefit may carry over to survivor benefits, potentially lowering future income.
Can children receive survivor benefits?
Yes. Eligible minor children and certain disabled adult children may qualify.
How do I apply for survivor benefits?
You typically apply through the Social Security Administration by phone or in person.
Final Thoughts
Social Security survivor benefits are one of the most important — and misunderstood — parts of retirement planning.
Whether you are married, divorced, widowed, or planning for retirement as a couple, understanding these rules may help protect your long-term financial security.
The decisions surrounding survivor benefits are often permanent, which makes education and planning critical.
A thoughtful Social Security strategy can potentially help maximize lifetime retirement income and provide greater confidence during retirement.
Daniel Wendol
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hello and welcome to another dolphin financial radio show my name is dan wendell today’s topic we’re going to be talking about social security survivor benefits now i’ve done a lot of seminars over the years and i’ve even done a lot of podcasts and videos over the years on social security and they have been the most popular people have a lot of questions about it and rightly so because it’s a huge part of retirement planning income planning and social security is a complex system
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so people have a lot of questions in today’s show i’m going to be hyper focused on survivor benefits what happens when you lose a spouse or a parent or a child what happens to the the social security benefits that that person was getting how much do you get can you get them what if you’re divorced how long will it last and are there any strategies we’re going to talk about all of that today and to help me with that i’m going to bring in my trusty sidekick tony shore there he is looking look oh we’re back
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in the studio he’s back i am in the studio today dan how how about that how about them apples at some point you and i are going to get back pre-covet in form we’re going to be in the right studios we’re going to have our audio fixed we’re going to have our lighting and video fixed and then we’ll just go live and then we’ll then we’ll really screw things up [Laughter] well i’m trying to get the the lighting adjusted in here and then we’ve got a backdrop that we’re going to be getting so
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hopefully we’ll be uh onshore will be okay you notice my backdrop i have the social security yes and the money that’s not real these are this is a green screen for the people that are watching the people i thought there was actually giant bills and social security cards giant that you pasted up behind you i had no idea that wasn’t real like those charity checks you know so i will start by saying i do not work for the social security office i do not work for any government agency i’m a certified financial planner that
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happens to know a lot about social security so we’re going to be talking about it today yes mic drop there it is it sounded like crash like a godzilla punch that’s all right that’s is that the sound it makes when i sit down in the studio wow okay so we’re gonna talk about survivor benefits tony okay talk about very specifically what happens when you lose a spouse so what happens it’s a tough one that’s a tough topic we’re on a more serious topic today yeah but it’s important and i think it
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is important get confused and so we’re gonna talk about what happens to social security when you lose your spouse or ex-spouse right we’re gonna people don’t realize that you can get a survivor benefit if you’re not married to the person but if you were okay so the first thing people wonder is can i get a lump sum no no you don’t get a lump sum of social security benefits actually you do tony 255 dollars what 255 dollars you get from the government if you lose a spouse that will pay for
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what will that pay for nothing not even flowers no yeah wow that yeah that that wouldn’t even cover flowers for the funeral that’s sad yeah so social security is not known for giving fancy lump sum death benefits that’s what life insurance is for but you do qualify for 255 if you were married to the person then they died so maybe in 1935 when social security was first established right that too it was probably the same exact amount and that would cover a pine box and a basic funeral yeah in
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1935 right right it’s sad i i bet you that’s right i bet you i should look that up it wasn’t indexed to inflation no um but yeah that’s a good one all right i wonder if it’s ever changed no probably not but moving on so who can get social security and how much are they going to get so it’s actually based off of the person that died’s record and there are several people that qualify you got the widow o widower so the spouse you have the ex-spouse so we’re going to talk about those today
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but i also want to mention that children and parents can get social security benefits oh really yes i want to talk quickly about that because this happens it doesn’t happen very often but let’s start with children so children that are 16 or or younger can get actually no uh if they’re 18 and younger and not married they can’t be married yeah or if they’re 19 and they’re still in school and that’s not high uh college that’s a secondary school or if they’re disabled
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and they were disabled before age 22. so those people can get benefits and then once they hit 18 or 19 you know 20 when they’re no longer in school even if they’re in school if they’re hit 20 then then then it stops so you can get social security benefits but typically social security is available to people when they hit age 62 so to have children under 18 at 62 it’s happening more and more but something to consider so in order in order for my children to be able to collect social security benefits
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uh from me even if they are 16 or 18 i would have to already be 62. you have to be claiming benefits i would have to be already claiming benefits okay right right um however however um you could be any age as an as a widower or widow and if you’re taking care of someone under 16 get social security benefits for that child so that’s interesting we’re not going to get we’re not going to get into the children part sure i want to i want to point out the parents you can also get social security
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benefits based on your child if you your child or adult child was taking care of more than or 50 or more of your your expenses so um there’s a formula for it so you as an adult can get social security benefits from a deceased child if that child was taking care of you okay and your own benefit isn’t as high so you get that step up sure but typically that’s going to be a parent that is aging that is being taken care of by the child by the adult child okay so there are benefits and those continue
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in survivor but let’s talk about a widow widower and whether or not your ex-spouse or what so a widow or widower can get social security survivor benefits at age 60. we’ve we’ve i’ve quizzed you back probably six seven years ago you failed you didn’t know but now you know now you know the earliest you could take it you could take it at 60 if you lose a spouse oh okay yeah age 50 if you totally remember that awkward side i did not i did not remember that i remember you quizzing me on a few
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things on some older shows and uh you are always excited and happy to report that i failed those quizzes well it’s important because at 862 people know they can claim social security right what they probably don’t realize is that they can claim it at 60 if they lose a spouse or an ex-spouse and if you’re currently disabled at age 50 you can claim a spousal benefit if you were just if you’re disabled you can claim it before age 60. you claim it at 50. as long as you were disabled prior to or
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within seven years of uh losing the spouse yeah okay so let’s talk about um the ex-spouse ex-spouse can claim a spousal benefit survivor benefit if they were a qualified ex-spouse that means you have been married for 10 years and you can’t have been remarried so well they can that that’s true whether they’re that’s not just a survivor benefit benefit that’s not even if they’re deceased even if they’re living if you’ve been divorced if you were married for at least 10
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years and you’re divorced and you hit social security you can collect off your ex-spouse’s social security right right you can get half even if they’re still alive right they’re still alive if they die you get the full survivor benefit ah okay okay that’s the difference but you have to have been married for 10 years sure yeah and you can’t be remarried unless actually i take that back you can be remarried after age 60 or age 50 if you’re disabled so it and i’ve talked about this all the time if
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you’re thinking about getting remarried you might want to wait till after 60 so that you could still claim against the ex-spouse who’s passed away even if they’re alive you could still do that but if at 60 you can claim against the next deceased and get a spousal benefit get remarried and still get the spousal benefit from your first husbands or first wives wow benefit that’s an interesting filing strategy that i bet a lot of people that are eligible for that don’t know about it and that’s right take advantage
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of that that’s huge and in in the show that the my most popular show about marriage and divorce and death i talk about how an 80 year old woman got divorced so that she can claim against her first husband because she got married before 60. she got remarried before wasn’t no longer eligible for the survivor benefit from her deceased first husband got remarried at 58 or something can’t claim social security against herself because she doesn’t have it can’t claim security against a
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current spouse because he doesn’t qualify she had to get divorced so she can qualify for the first husband wow interesting right interesting and i love how that you’re you you feel your most popular show was on uh marriage divorce and death was you and and recommending living in wedlock or living in sin living in sydney oh yeah yeah living in sin unbelievable uh but on paper they got divorced but they’re still married you know yeah so so you can get remarried after 60 or 50 if you’re disabled
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and so the question is or what do i get what do i get right you know what is my benefit and does it make sense and and all right i can qualify but should i do it so this is where the strategy comes in so it’s based on the person who died and the reductions continue and what i mean by that is and this is what typically happened wife and husband and wife the husband worked full life the wife stayed at home this was when social security was first came about right sure single family single earner in the
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family spouse didn’t work husband worked he took social security at 62 he retired at 55 took social security at 62 which was early so he’s getting a haircut he’s not getting his full retirement benefit it didn’t matter they wanted the money they needed the money the spouse qualified at 62 to get half because they didn’t have their own they get half of their earner and then the the husband died at 68 and the spouse then gets to keep their own which is half or their full spousal benefit which is what they do
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they take the survival benefit the problem being the reduction stays that spouse that husband took it at 62 at a reduced rate right they lock that in you lose a health you lose a third basically at that point right that’s it yeah if you if you file early which is successful almost two it’s not it’s not a third it’s it’s more like 25 or so oh okay so so but still a quarter that that’s still right and so the spouse surviving spousal benefit is locked in at that reduced rate as
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well sure speaking of haircut uh you’re looking great and i just got one last see dan and i are sporting the new that’s it this guy what which where do i uh i can’t see all that this this guy this guy yes technology right it’s not even green screen that’s right that’s actually gray i can’t do a gray screen because then i’d look bald anyway so you want to think twice about taking it early if you’re married okay now um it’s also based on the survivor’s age so when you claim social security
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you may be taking a haircut we talked about if you wait to a full retirement age you get 100 but if you take it at age 60 which you can you’re going to get 71 and a half percent oh so you got to think twice about this you got to think twice now you got to look at things like longevity health your current financial situation and that’s where that’s why this is such an integral piece of overall financial planning which is what you do for your clients and so many financial services professionals out there
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so-called financial planners don’t deal with social security but they really should be factoring it in shouldn’t they it’s the biggest source of income for people that are retired in this country yep it’s got a cost of living benefit it’s not all taxable there’s a lot of reasons to like social security sure but there’s some rules and people just don’t realize they can get a spousal benefit what does that mean you don’t get both some people think you can get both no
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you get one or the other but a lot of people don’t realize you can get it if you’re ex besties so there’s a lot of factors that go in here and they need to think about it right because you’re gonna take a hit if a spouse dies because you don’t get to keep that full benefit no you don’t and um if you’re already claiming against your current spouse right let’s say right you’re married and your spouse is claiming social security they got a good record and you’re getting only half because you
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don’t have a strong record so you’re already claiming based on your spouse and that spouse dies you automatically convert to theirs you get the step up automatically you there’s nothing you could do because there’s no trick you can’t all right i’m going to take his and then switch to mine you’ve already claimed you’re already getting as much as you can get half of the spouse and then they die you’re going to get their full benefit because you can only keep one or the
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other whichever is higher so you’re going to take the higher amount right now if you’re not on social security yet and you lose a spouse or an ex-spouse dies now you have some options now you can choose you could choose between your own benefit or you could take the survivor benefit and this is where it gets interesting so let’s let’s throw a scenario you’re you’re 63 years old and you’re divorced and you haven’t claimed your own social security benefit yet because
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you’re you’re working or you you want to delay because you want more then you find out your ex-spouse died and your ex-spouse was 65 say and you’re saying oh well what now does that does that change my strategy can i do something different the answer is yes you can claim against an ex-spouse survivor benefit because they died and then not touch your own and switch to your own later well how much am i going to get from my ex-spouse i don’t know you have to find out what their benefit
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was i don’t know i don’t even know if he’s alive or dead but you can find that out through contacting social security office so you do want to keep tabs on ex-spouses well if i take his benefit at 63 then but i wanted to wait because mine’s higher okay take the survivor benefit at 63. you’re not going to get 100 because remember you’re taking it early you don’t know what you’re going to get but you find out and then when you hit 67 say that’s your full retirement age
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you could switch to your own which is a higher amount and then you get an increase wow i don’t know they’d let you do that you can see they eliminated these the restricted application to be able to switch and do right on stuff except for survivor benefits you could still do it all right so now let’s change the scenario let’s say that you have a very low record and you’re saying i’m 63 years old uh my my current spouse you know died i’m not on my own yet i didn’t take it yet we were planning to
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wait because we weren’t sure or my ex-spouse died i wasn’t now what you could do is you could take your own benefit and you get a reduction take your own benefit and maybe it’s only a thousand a month or 500 a month and then when you hit your full retirement age that’s when you call up the social security office and say i’d like my survivor benefit now now you get a hundred percent of your deceased spouses so you get a little bit leading up to your full retirement age and then
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boom you get a hundred percent later so that’s a match yeah so and well you can’t do that normally but if you have a survivor benefit you can and this is what people don’t realize is that they have some options that they have to do some math that it’s not oh one of the other always you can do a switch they allow you to do that and you could start your survivor benefit at 60 and switch to your own at 67 if you wanted or or take your own at 62 and switch to the survivor benefit at 67
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or 65 whenever it makes sense for you but you have to do the math so let one or the other roll up well you use the smaller amount yes the idea is to maximize one or the other yep and normally you could do that if you’re married but if you lose the spouse you could still maximize one of them through the survivor benefit rules which haven’t changed so that’s the beauty so financially devastating to lose a spouse this is what destroys a lot of people’s retirement dreams sure and emotionally right i’m not talking
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about the emotions right yeah just financially people don’t think about it they think about it but they don’t want to do anything about it right and the last thing they think about is oh that’s right i lose the social security benefit right social security has rules to protect spouses in this scenario sure and ex-spouses which people don’t realize same rules as long as you were married for 10 years and not remarried so you got to know these rules you have to know the rules you have to know that
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there are strategies available to you and then you run the math so i do this i have software i get people watching this video hearing the podcast they email me they call they say hey dan can you run that scenario for me uh i’m a widow i kind of i i i hear what you’re saying but i’d like to see it in black and white and i do that i run it i email them the social security maximization report i don’t charge for this they take it with them when they go to file at the social security office you cannot file
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for survivor benefits online you could call you can go to the in person but you can’t file online because they need to see some documents sure they take this document death certificate probably you’d have to have yes unless you’re going to try you don’t want to do the weekend that bernie’s thing you know like they don’t want people we get it well my husband’s uh social security benefits worth a whole lot more when he’s alive than if he’s dead so let’s keep him alive
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yeah no no good so if you’re interested in that just contact me through here you can text me you can write a thing on the notes here on these on the youtube channel you can email me on the website dolphinfinancialgroup.com you can call me on the number that’s on the screen here just contact me and i will get you this report especially important if you lost a spouse or an ex-spouse through death hey know what your options are and make the right choice yeah that’s huge great show eye opener
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today dan i i really think this is so important uh especially for those who’ve lost a spouse so and to remind everybody hey this is not government agency talking i’m gonna have my kids do the outro and tell you remind you of that but tony thanks for a good show thanks dan keeping it light and uh have a wonderful day everybody all matters discussed in today’s show for informational purposes only this show is not investment advice dan middle nor dolphin financial group are affiliated or endorsed by any government
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